Inside and Out: Creating a Space That’s Just for You


This is a contributor’s blogpost …


As we feel the pressures of the modern age and as we get older, we inevitably hurtle towards the unsettling midlife crisis or even the mid-20s crisis. It’s crucial to realize the importance of creating a space in your life, whether literal or metaphorical, that is just for you. So, with that in mind, what are the most useful areas of our life that we can utilize for the purposes of quiet contemplation?


Photo courtesy of Pixabay via Pexels


Our Gardens… The Space For Soulful Solitude


One of the best places to create a space for relaxation and recuperation is in everyone’s back garden. Our gardens, however big or small, can be great areas for growth and relaxation. We need to nurture this space as best as possible, so we can create not just a good-looking space but somewhere that we can calm down, especially when life gets too much.


So how do you build the garden up? There are numerous approaches that work. You may want to learn how to grow it yourself. There are always plenty of ways to get inspiration that will help you create a back garden space that offers a retreat from the pressures of the modern world. You can even get professional help from suppliers like


Photo courtesy of Bruce Mars via Pexels


The Benefits Of Quiet Time At Home


And if you are not able to make the most of a garden space, you have to utilize what little room you have at home. Creating a space that is just for you doesn’t have to be about turning that junk room into a meditation room. Instead, you can find inspiration in any part of the home, whether it’s the home office, a corner of the living room that does not serve any purpose, or just taking the opportunity first thing in the morning and the last thing at night to sit down quietly in the kitchen with a relaxing cup of chai tea. During these quiet moments, take the opportunity to listen to what your inner thoughts have to say. Many of us have stopped listening to our inner voice and trusting our instinct, using the quiet time to check social media instead. There’s a power to listening to one’s inner voice that’s worth tapping. 


Creating a space that is just for you isn’t just about relaxing a lot better. This is what will help you cope with modern pressures. It’s about finding those little moments in life where you can truly relax and take the opportunity to get yourself up to speed. Whether this is after everybody has gone to bed at night and you can sit in a quiet living room, or you venture out to the garden, or go for a walk in the woods, take the opportunity to realize who you are.



Author: Urban Ponder Writing Team

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *